A fun and positive relationship with Jeff is part of my vibrancy. Neither one of us can thrive if we're not working as a team to keep it that way. One of the ways we keep it fun is with our "happy triggers." These verbal cues, or triggers, help diffuse anger and irritability between us so we don't escalate into huge fights. Or they make us laugh and smile every time they're used. OMN Short for On My Nerves. Most of the time we just use the shortcut method and verbalize OMN, but we also use ...